Resolving Relationship problems with Hypnosis & Hypnotherapy in Eastcote and Ruislip
....Also serving the areas of Watford, Hillingdon, Pinner, Northwood, Harrow and Ickenham, Uxbridge and London
This is a new page to my website devoted to all those people out there who are now in, or have a pattern of being in a difficult or destructive relationships. From my experience with my clients, there are many people out there in unhappy relationships which destroys their self worth, lacking confidence, feeling hurt, undermined and confused. Or, perhaps due to low self esteem you put up with unfair behaviour; people with positive self-esteem do not let others treat them badly.
Or maybe it is your behaviour which is sabotaging a good relationship - maybe you are excessively insecure, jealous or have outbursts of intense anger.
Many couples have sought marriage guidance or couple counselling or have tried to talk through their problems, only to find that even if they were helped initially, the old problems have returned.
I have divided this page into two sections:
1. Resolving relationship problems with sexual partners.
2. Resolving relationship problems with parents
Resolving relationship problems with Sexual Partners
- Relationship problems Hypnoanalysis can resolve:
• Feelings of low self-esteem and low confidence
• Feelings of hurt or fear of being hurt
• Feelings of guilt
• Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness and a lack of trust
• Feelings of unworthiness or not being good enough
• Feelings of inadequacy
• Fear of commitment
• Fear of being rejected and feelings of rejection
• Feelings of insecurity and vulnerability
• Feelings of betrayal or fear of being betrayed
• Cutting emotional ties with previous partners
• Resolving sexual problems for men or women
• Bringing back feelings of love into a relationship
Below, I have used actual real-life cases to illustrate how inappropriate or excessive emotions and negative thinking can spoil an otherwise happy relationship.
Jealousy
Priya is in a loving relationship with her husband. They have three children and good jobs and all should be well. However, Priya had been obsessing about her husband having an affair. She felt insecure about what her husband did when he was not with her, and found it hard not to quiz him. He has always been a good husband and there was no substance to support her suspicions but she could not get rid of these jealous feelings....until she had hypnoanalysis. This is what she said after completing therapy:
 I came to Cara at the point when my jealousy and insecurities had reached breaking point. I felt very unhappy and angry all the time and could not see it geting better. Only seven sessions of hypnoanalysis and I am extremely pleased to say that I feel on top of the world. Cara has helped me bring out the emotions that I had bottled up while I was a child and get rid of all the guilt, anger and hatred that I had within myself which was seriously affecting my daily life as an adult.
Going for hypnoanalysiswas one of the best decisions I have made in my life.
Partners that undermine and zap confidence
Melanie is consistently drawn to partners who treat her badly. Since being in her current relationship she has been suffering symptoms of IBS, feels depressed and suffers extreme low confidence. She knows that her feelings for him are the cause of these symptoms - she tip-toes around him for fear of causing another argument and she can no longer be herself with him. When things are going well for them, Mel couldn't be happier...however this is only around 5% of the time they are together. The rest of the time is spent rowing, fighting and sulking or not speaking. She knows he is wrong for her and making her life a misery but she is unable leave him...
Excessive Anger towards partners
Sarah's partner is controlling and manipulative. Her emotional buttons are being pressed most of the time she is with him. She keeps hoping and thinking he will change, but in the meantime is putting up with him being verbally and sometimes physically abusive. He blames her for all that goes wrong in their lives and her confidence is has been shaken so much that she constantly doubts herself.
Destructive relationships can include verbal, emotional, sexual and physical abuse. This can involve...
Degrading remarks about you, your appearance, your life in general. Specifically they may: calls you names; blame you, withhold affection or appreciation, isolate you, humiliate, ignore, makes threats or physically assaults you.
Difficult relationships with Parents
Overly critical parents can cause their children to feel judged and anxious to seek approval from them. Do your parents push your buttons or bring out the worst in you?
Perhaps you have the the belief that you must be close to your parents simply because you are related to them. Maybe you’d never put up with this person’s behavior if it came from a stranger, but if the person is a relative, then you tolerate it out of a sense of duty, obligation or a sense of guilt. To see less of a parent or completely cut them out of your life might cause you to feel guilty or judged by family members.
Feelings we had as children towards our parents often remain with us as adults...almost as it those feelings are stuck in time. These feelings can prevent us from feeling independent and mature as adults - causing difficulties in later life such as low self-esteem and feelings of being judged or wanting approval from parents, and others.
Alex is in her early 40s, with a loving husband and children and financially well-off. She was consulting for extreme low confidence and social anxiety. She really did not like herself. Her father was physically and verbally aggressive towards her as a child and her mother would turn a blind eye to this and would also take every opportunity to put Sharon down and make her feel small. Despite this, years later, she would still feel obliged to remain in close contact with her, visiting her once a week even though she dreaded it. She felt too guilty not too and didn't want to risk upsetting her mother.
Sam was in his mid 30s and had suffered severe social anxiety all his life. His mother is a very controlling, judgemental women. He felt obliged to keep in close contact with her and her approval of him and his choices in life. He felt he could not break free from this emotional hold she had over him.
How Pure Hypnoanalysis can resolve Relationship Issues
Very often, how we feel, react and behave in our current relationships are affected by anxieties and bottled up emotions from our past. Our emotions often take presidence over rational thought and we can react in ways we don't understand or seem to not make sense. It is possible that you are playing out childhood relationships and feelings in your current relationship. In order to resolve this bind to the past these feelings need to be resolved.
At the Ruislip Hypnotherapy Clinic, I offer the best form of therapy for permanently releasing these emotions and the anxiety they cause, therefore making way for permanent positive changes in peoples lives and relationships. Hypnoanalysis allows the client to resolve the very root cause of their problem, helping them to change their lives significantly in a short space of time. Analytical therapy is used to discover the cause of the problems to allow an emotional release. The emotion once released will take with it its symptoms.
Booking your free initial consultation couldn't be easier.
It is perfectly natural that you may have questions about hypnotherapy. To arrange a free consultation or to book an appointment call 01923 234 770 or mobile 07740 781 573
If I'm with a client, you can leave a confidential message on my answerphone and I will return your call as soon as possible.
Alternatively, you can email me at: info@caraostryn.co.uk
Help for Relationship Problems at the Ruislip hypnosis and hypnotherapy clinic. The clinic serves the following areas in London: Eastcote, Hillingdon, Harrow, Pinner, Northwood and Uxbridge.
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